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Christmas Joy - with a side of Grief

Posted on December 21, 2019 at 12:05 AM Comments comments (0)

If you know me then you know the Holidays are my favorite time of the year. November- January. So- this Holiday Season I thought I had made it to a place where “grief” wouldn’t bother me. Boy was I wrong. In the midst of the joy of the Season, the celebration of Jesus’ birth, looking forward to spending time with my oldest who was born on Christmas Eve, etc., grief, loneliness, the longing for family gatherings, tears, and sadness has crept in at times. ...

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Mother's Day 2019

Posted on May 14, 2019 at 1:05 PM Comments comments (0)

Ahh Mother’s Day. It really is a beautiful day right? A day set aside to honor Motherhood and to acknowledge the hard work that we mothers do on a daily basis.

So, what do we do if Mother’s Day is hard to go through? What about the person like me who has lost a mother? What about the mother who has lost a child? What about the mother who has been trying to conceive to no avail? What about those with strained mother ...

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National Single Parents Day

Posted on March 21, 2019 at 9:55 AM Comments comments (2)

Did you know that today March 21 is Single Parent Day? I had no idea. Yeah back in 1984, President Ronald Reagan proclaimed this date “National Single Parents Day”. The late President stated, “many single parents in America are making valiant efforts on behalf of their children under trying circumstances.” After getting a divorce my late mother was thrust into single motherhood. She was by far the strongest woman I have ever known. It was three of us wit...

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Happy Anniversary

Posted on August 2, 2018 at 2:10 PM Comments comments (0)

August 1, 1998. The day you gave me your last name. The day we said I Do to each other and God. The day we recited our vows. That we would love each other- for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, til death do us part. Hmm....... I remember saying those words and I meant them. I just didn’t expect death to come so soon for us. We celebrated 17 wedding anniversari...

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I didn't realize how far I've (We've) come!

Posted on July 24, 2018 at 8:10 PM Comments comments (5)

It has been a little over 2 1/2 years since my husbands death. Life as I knew it is completely different now. I remember after seeing his body at the hospital stating to a friend of mine with tears rolling down my face, “how are my sons and I going to make it without him? We can’t do this without him.” Thinking about that even now makes my heart ache.

After hours of being at the hospital, with my sons, family and friends...

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Graduation Feelings

Posted on May 31, 2018 at 4:55 PM Comments comments (0)

I really don’t even know how to begin this post. My oldest son is graduating tomorrow from high school. I am so proud of him and I’m excited about his future. I must admit though I keep thinking this child is graduating and I feel his Dad should be here. So, on top of the regular emotions that come with a child graduating and preparing to leave “the nest”, I have all of these other feelings along with that. For example, how proud my lat...

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The First Lady

Posted on April 28, 2018 at 12:45 AM Comments comments (0)

Today I want to feature a post from a very good friend of mine Denyse Turner. Like me, Denyse is a Pastors Widow and we met online. Over the past two years we have become wonderful friends. Being a Widow is difficult, and when you add on the fact that your husband was a Pastor it adds even more challenges. Take a look at Denyse’s thoughts of her journey as a Pastor’s Widow.

P.S. Denyse has a website,

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Guest Post- Tre Shaw

Posted on March 29, 2018 at 4:10 PM Comments comments (0)

I'm excited to present a writing from my oldest son. He is graduating from high school in June of this year. He wrote this essay in October 2017 for an AP English IV college essay writing assignment. When he sent it to me to read I was amazed at how well written it was, although I shouldn't have been, he's always been a great writer, and to see his thought...

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Happy Valentine's Day

Posted on February 14, 2018 at 3:40 PM Comments comments (0)

Happy Valentines Day. The day that has been set aside to show love to the ones we love. For widows it can be a sad, rough, lonely day. Some even are angry and are upset when they see others loving each other. As for me, I love LOVE! Don't get me wrong seeing the posts may make me a little sad because my lover is no longer here on earth but I’m a girl who loves to see love expressed.

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Get over It? What do you mean?

Posted on November 29, 2017 at 11:30 AM Comments comments (0)

I always like to acknowledge God and how amazing He has been and is to my sons and I on this grief journey. I’m so grateful to God for who He is in our lives, for all that He’s doing and for all that He continues to do. I couldn't even imagine trying to make it through life without God. On September 7, 2015 our lives changed forever. We had no choice ...

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